I personally consider myself to embody the alpha female archetype. Occasionally, the qualities of an alpha female may be misconstrued as being daunting, but rest assured, the alpha woman is simply confident in her approach and will not alter her essence for anyone or any circumstance she encounters. Being identified as an alpha female certainly comes with more advantages than drawbacks. If the majority of these 10 characteristics align with your daily demeanor and personality, you can confidently claim the title of an alpha female.
1. Embracing Solo Ventures
You are not hesitant to manage tasks on your own. Whatever the situation—whether it’s visiting the gym, grabbing a quick meal, or attending a university function—an alpha female has no fear of tackling it solo. She understands that the only person she absolutely needs to accomplish anything is herself. Having company is nice, but it is certainly not a requirement for the alpha when getting things done.
2. Unwavering Self-Belief
You possess total confidence in who you are. In contemporary society, it’s challenging to be completely self-assured about every aspect of your being, just as you are. Yet, this very confidence is what distinguishes the alpha female from other women. She is confident in her decisions and never questions them. Furthermore, she doesn’t concern herself with or feel threatened by the actions of others because she knows what she offers is equally good, if not superior.
3. Living with Clear Intent
The alpha female does not drift through her daily life aimlessly, like a lost soul; she is driven and will persist until she achieves the objectives she has set out for herself. Whether the alpha woman is diligently studying in school to ultimately work in her dream career or focused on achieving a fitness goal, she is always aware of the steps she must take to get the job done.
4. Direct Communication
You speak your mind without reservation and never sugarcoat the truth. This is not to suggest the alpha female is abrasive, but she does stand firmly by her beliefs and convictions. While she will keep an open mind, genuinely listen to others’ viewpoints, and respect them, she is not afraid to assert and make her own opinions known. My close friend and housemate recently commented that I am a very blunt person, but that it comes across as authentic. While directness may deter some, if it means I am being true to what I believe, then I’m prepared to let a few people step away.
5. Knowing When to Detach
An alpha female instinctively recognizes what contributes to her growth and what doesn’t. Because she embraces change, she is not afraid to bid farewell to people who no longer contribute value or purpose to her life. Sometimes, the alpha female may sever ties abruptly, not out of dislike, but simply because she navigates life swiftly and welcomes transitions as they occur.
6. Seeking Out Novelty
You are not intimidated by new experiences. The phrase “new experience” can be daunting to some because it involves a certain amount of risk and the uncertainty of the unknown. However, those very factors that hold other people back are what MOTIVATE the alpha female to venture out into the world. An alpha woman knows the world has a wealth of opportunities and doesn’t feel the need to restrain herself from engaging in new and exciting adventures that cross her path.
7. High Performance and Execution
You get things done. While procrastination might occasionally be a concept in the alpha female’s mind, when it comes to sorting out her priorities, she doesn’t hesitate. When an alpha female decides to achieve something, she follows through, and she does it to the best of her abilities.
8. Naturally Assertive
Being assertive is a quality I’ve had my entire life. Going back to my 3rd-grade math class, I was constantly asking countless questions—perhaps because I struggle with math, but that is beside the point. The main takeaway is that I was never afraid to seek the information I needed, and I was always upfront and assertive in my methods of gaining knowledge. I recently took a trip to New York City with my closest friends. To hail a taxi there, you need to stand at the very edge of the pavement. Almost every time, I was the one leaning my arm into the street and shouting, “HELLO TAXI!,” and I had absolutely no issue doing it. Assertiveness comes naturally to an alpha female.
9. Relentless Pursuit
The notion of “giving up” is foreign to the alpha female. If an alpha female desires something, she will not stop until it is hers. Determination and success override the phrase “give up.” Whenever I want something, regardless of what it is—unless it’s trivial and unimportant, as then I don’t bother—I will use every resource available to obtain it. For example, my ambition is to become a reporter because I have a genuine interest in people and the world around us. Allowing setbacks or difficulties to make me quit is not an option. If an alpha female sets her sights on something, she will pursue it with everything she has.
10. Mental Fortitude
You possess a strong mindset. A powerful mind overcomes any obstacle. Someone may possess incredible talent, but without the mental toughness to drive themselves in the right direction, they won’t achieve much. The alpha female’s mind is stronger than a competitive athlete’s, and she is highly conscious of her thoughts and all her actions.
